To heal yourself…don’t reminisce on good memories
The hardest part about letting go of a person or situation is letting go of the “what if” aspect of it. You want to know what could’ve happened, or what would’ve happened had you done this or not done this.
What I’ve learned is that you have to let that go. You can’t worry yourself with the potential of something because that’s ultimately not the reality of the situation and that isn’t what landed you in this position.
If the reason you’re needing to let go is because of you, accept that. If not, accept that also. For me, it wasn’t something I wanted or agreed with, and I literally fought my side until the very end and I’m trying to accept the fact that I didn’t want or ask for this; he did. Everything that happened to our relationship, our friendship, whatever, is a result of what he wanted…
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